PROTECTING CHILDREN FROM SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION

It goes without saying, digital natives have chronic addiction to their phones and by extension social media. Our children are held hostage to blinking screens Tik Tokking, Whatsapping or Facebooking.In more ways than one, they are victims of technology.

While we were growing up, we only had one social media -the outside. We played football in dusty village lanes. We watched movies in primary school fields and met our first loves during highs school games. On the other hand, our children play Candy Crush on phones and watch movies on phones .They also meet their first loves on their phone in online dating sites.

Our children spend their days uploading selfies on social media-you would think they are paid to do so.They populate acres and acres of Instagram with photos of their faces. To them, any event which is not uploaded on some media site and liked, shared or retweeted didn’t  happen.

Many modern parents have no idea how to protect their children from addiction to social media. Some are too busy in their daily work to protect their children. Others, especially the relatively young Gen Xers,are also addicted  to the their own smart phones.However,there are trusted ways that work in protecting children from mindless addiction to social media.Here we go:

FIVE GUARANTEED WAYS OF PROTECTING CHILDREN FROM SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION

1. CONTROL THE PHONE

Take control of the phone and install parent control programs. Some of these are Teen safe, My Guardian, Phone Sheriff etc. These are Android based apps and will help navigate your child from harmful sites.

hhttp://www.phonesheriff.com/

http://www.phonesheriff.com/

2. NET WORK BLOCKING

Block all those sites that you detect your child is addicted to .Also block him or her from dangerous sites and thus protect him from dangerous elements like scammers, child pornographers, identity thieves  cyber bullies et c.These sites can be of use:

https://support.opendns.com/hc/en-us/articles/227988047-Web-Content-Filtering-and-Security

https://www.howtogeek.com/201312/how-to-use-opendns-on-your-router-pc-tablet-or-smartphone/

3. GIVE THE CHILDREN ALTERNATIVES TO SMART PHONES

Know your children’s interests and pamper them. Buy your boy a dirt bike that will distract him all day and leave him with little energy to chat all night. Buy your daughter some chic lit books that will keep her hooked all day. Who knows-she might improve her pathetic grammar. You might even find that some of these alternatives are cheaper than a smart phone.

4. USE THE PHONE MORE CONSTRUCTIVELY

If your son is inclined to photography, motivate him to join a Facebook group of photographers. If your daughter loves cooking, let her blog about it.That way, the time spent on Social media will be worthwhile as opposed mindless scrolling.

5. TECH FREE SPACES

Most Silicon Valley executives send their children to tech free schools. They believe that a child should first read Romeo and Juliet before they learn how to play Candy Crush. While it may not be possible to have absolutely tech free spaces, it would be good to direct your child to tech free spaces like churches, football pitches, nature sanctuaries, swimming pools etc. Here are a some useful links.

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/dec/15/schools-approach-to-mobile-phones-varies-widely-in-uk

FINAL WORD

Internet is broken. Its teeming with paedophiles, scammers and identity thieves. Sadly, it’s here to stay with us for a long time to come. Applying the above ways that work will go some way in protecting children who are increasingly getting addicted to blinking screens at the expense of their eyes, education and life.